Obituaries

Jerry Burcham
B: 1940-01-19
D: 2017-04-22
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Burcham, Jerry
Joel Tomlin
B: 2017-03-07
D: 2017-04-21
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Tomlin, Joel
Peggy Kitchen
B: 1934-08-31
D: 2017-04-21
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Kitchen, Peggy
Stanley Palmore
B: 1925-12-23
D: 2017-04-20
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Palmore, Stanley
Cassie Miller
B: 1923-01-10
D: 2017-04-19
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Miller, Cassie
Leland Sullivan
B: 1928-12-29
D: 2017-04-14
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Sullivan, Leland
Mildred Gill
B: 1928-02-02
D: 2017-04-14
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Gill, Mildred
Winifred Rogers
B: 1931-02-24
D: 2017-04-12
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Rogers, Winifred
Franklin Collins
B: 1985-05-31
D: 2017-04-10
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Collins, Franklin
Gerald Wall
B: 1934-09-22
D: 2017-04-08
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Wall, Gerald
William Lufsey
B: 1950-05-06
D: 2017-04-08
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Lufsey, William
Harley Hammer
B: 1943-08-25
D: 2017-04-08
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Hammer, Harley
Mary Cridlin
B: 1958-10-19
D: 2017-04-08
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Cridlin, Mary
Joyce Prather
B: 1941-06-07
D: 2017-04-07
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Prather, Joyce
Charles Ball
B: 1928-06-02
D: 2017-04-07
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Ball, Charles
Jean Driskill
B: 1931-03-29
D: 2017-04-03
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Driskill, Jean
Waltraud Vasiloff
B: 1931-09-03
D: 2017-04-02
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Vasiloff, Waltraud
Pamela Myrick
B: 1955-07-04
D: 2017-04-01
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Myrick, Pamela
Howard Bickings
B: 1923-12-27
D: 2017-03-31
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Bickings, Howard
David Napier
B: 1957-05-06
D: 2017-03-30
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Napier, David
Reba Thacker
B: 1922-01-27
D: 2017-03-29
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Thacker, Reba

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